In the Words of My Wifey, OMG!
O-M-G! This is what I heard from the Mrs. last night when were discussing my site and what I was looking to do in the future. You see I started this site about a year ago in April and with the help of my mentor I have seen my visitors grow from zero to over 1k per day.
Well here lies the problem; I don’t really feel like I am helping anyone and I think that it’s mainly my fault. I started with a plan of writing great content to engage you the reader to post comments, ask questions and hopefully help you with your weight loss issues. But then I got consumed with the number of people who visit and less about what was important which was HELPING others.
So Last Night I Figured I’d Make a Change
You see when my wife looked at my site and read some of the articles the first thing I heard was O-M-G! (I think that’s her new favorite word but it’s really driving me nuts to say the least.) So she says to me BAE, what is this? What are you doing? This is so not you! I felt like I was back in school and my mother was upset because I got a bad score on a test or something.
She wasn’t happy with the content and felt as if though for the past couple of months I have been cheating both YOU and MYSELF and I would have to agree. Instead of writing great content and focusing on being ME I fell into the trap of doing what all other site are doing and NOT doing ME.

Here’s the DEAL!
Women who come to my site are looking for a few things, how to lose weight, how to get a smaller waist, how to get rid of wide hips, and etc. From now on that’s all my entire site is going to be about hence the name WAIST HIPS & THIGHS in the first place.
To give it a personal touch I am going to make it a point to let you know things that are going on in my life as well so you get to know me Thomas “the person” and not just someone who writes on a blog. In return I want you to let me know how you feel and topics you want to talk about.
My Wife is ALL KINDS OF UPSET (her words not mine)
See the funny thing is that my wife thinks I am so difficult to deal with (see she still loves me though) yet feels I’ve been being too nice and trying to please EVERYONE. My site isn’t for everyone! It’s for women who have issues and want solutions to their WAIST HIPS & THIGHS! Not how to get rid of flabby arms, not the best clothes to wear, not how to gain 10lbs of muscle. SORRY DID THAT! NOT DOING IT ANY MORE!!!
TODAY MARKS A NEW JOURNEY!
A new journey starts for this site, my readers and friend and also for me as I focus more on the things that matter the most. My beautiful wife often has problems with her waistline, hips and thighs too so don’t think YOU are the only one. You are not alone and I would like you to come along with me as I share our journey and along the way I will help you get the body you want in the process.
BE EASY,
-Thomas
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Thomas,
Congrats on the milestone! I’m not even close to this figure but knowing that someone is reading your blog is always a moment to feel proud.
I’m looking forward to see how this blog changes. I really don’t know how you’ve been fooling anyone because in the end every post I have read for the last 6 months since I came upon your site I found to be informative and helpful. The fact that people come on, read, engage and come back over and over again is a huge accomplishment.
Either way I will continue reading your blog. But I want you to know I never felt you cheated anyone in any way.
-Sam
@ Sam – Thanks for the congrats! You will get there just continue to focus on your great content. The post have been informative for a lot of people especially those who UNDERSTAND the fitness arena. But when I look at the average person who is TRYING to get there they lack personality and a real feel. So what I am going to do is give the blog LIFE! Stick with me and see how it changes.
-Thomas
Sounds like you’re really focusing in on quality instead of quantity and your readers — good reminders for sure! … good job hitting the 1k mark!!
@ Kevin – Thanks for the 1k! But to be honest i would rather have a blog where more people commenting if it was less visitors.
The idea behind having a blog is to engage the readers and i think the quality is what really pushes that.