I think at some point everyone will cheat men and women alike!  This subject came up last night while out for drinks with a couple of my male friends.  When men get together it’s amazing the conversations that come up and the amount that have to do with our wives, girlfriends, and what women think.  So often we hear both ask and answer the questions: why do men cheat, do all men cheat, are you always think with the other head.  So let’s the horrible situation of cheating, however nothing I state will justify cheating just simply answering the questions.

“The answer to this question will never truly be known!  More and more men and women are cheating as time passing, but there is one thing that is known and this is that for all the excuses there are really no reasons!”

She’s Not Going Anywhere

You won’t believe how many times I have heard a guy I know is cheating on his girl or wife say she’s not going anywhere when I ask why he is cheating.  Sadly some men seem to think that they are the best thing in the world and there is no possible way that the woman they are with will leave. For the most part I have found this to be true and I am not saying that the woman doesn’t cheat in return but she doesn’t leave him and it just strokes his ego just a little bit more.

Double Standards It Okay For Men

No there’s no stupid law out that clearly states that it’s okay for men to cheat and not for women, however many view it as different.  I don’t know how many times I hear a woman say it’s expected for a man to cheat but it is just considered “nasty” or “unnatural” for a woman to do the same thing.  When guys hear comments like this from women it just adds our stupidity.  We are already wanting to go sleep with another woman and then we hear you say that its expected, how dumb can we be?

I Cheat Because She Let’s Me

You know how many times I have had conversations with women who know that their spouse or boyfriend is cheating and all they say is, “what can I do?”  For the most part if a man ever finds out that his wife or girl was cheating he would more than likely break up with her immediately.  Most men feel like there is not much room for forgiving a woman if she cheats since it will just become a cycle.  However many women go on living there lives knowing the person they are with is having other relations with other women.  If you let us cheat men are going to do it especially if he knows you know and nothing happens.

Because You Need Him or Have a Family

It is very common with men who either make a lot of money or are married with children.  With money they know that there is a dependency of the woman to maintain a certain lifestyle and they think it’s their right to do whatever they want since they are “supporting” the women.  They also feel that since they have a wife and kids that the woman is not going to want to break up a family because he slept with someone else.

She Doesn’t Do The Things She Use Too

This covers so much it would be impossible to cover in one post.  But mainly it has to do with her doing the things she did before they were dating or married.  A lot of men feel that once they have committed to a woman that she stops doing all the things she did before.  That could be going out drinking, going to football, how often they have sex, cooking, and other things.  They don’t feel like she is the person they were when they men use that as justification to cheat.

Doesn’t Find Her Attractive Anymore

This is a big one as there has to be a sense of physical attraction and lust in a relationship.  I hear some men complain that their wife doesn’t do her hair, dress up, take care of herself, or she has gained a considerable amount of weight.  There has to be attraction to the person that you are spending that you are with.

The Last Reason Men Cheat

The last reason is simply because we are “SELFISH & STUPID!” Some men will have almost everything and still will go out and cheat on the person they are dating or married to.  There is no rhyme or reason for we will do we just do it.

NOTE:  I will say it is noted that women are now cheating more than men.  So it is not just us that have been cheating and causing problems in relationships.  Women too are looking for more than what they have already.  So what do you think?  Does everyone cheat men and women?